Hello everyone,

I want to use the paraliminals in order to help me with an issue regarding personal relationships. The problem i experience with girls is that ,i am able to make a connection,but most often i am viewed as a just friend.

I think the issue for that is that i don't feel comfortable to take things in a more sexual direction.

So, what tapes would you recommend to change that?, i personally think about combining creating sparks, with IPM, to install in myself more of an sexy vibe, and a different tape to be more comfortable to take things mor sexual.

Any ideas?

I suggest including Self-Esteem Supercharger. Good call on Creating Sparks. Us it when you're going out with the one you would like to be more intimate with.

Alex

Hi Alex,

In what way do you recommend me using the self-esteem supercharger tape?, in order to be more comfortable with being sexual/express my desire?

And i have read on one of the threads, that "creating sparks" can be used in order to be more attractive in a general way, rather than just towards a special person.

One different thing i have a friend who is naturally succesful with women, that much that he never really had to approach them,because they approach him, and since i know that this is mostly because of his mindset, do you think
"New behavior generator" can be used for this?

Seeing yourself being viewed as just a friend is a symptom of low self-esteem.

You planning to hit on just anyone? You may not notice you are creating sparks. "Just another friend" That's why I suggest Self-Esteem Supercharger, you may already be creating sparks but letting yourself become just a friend.



Instantaneous Personal Magnetism for that.

Alex

Hey Alex,

Thank you for your answer once again.

It is just that i notice that this, "let's just be friends" is a pattern in my life that repeats itself, so i want to change it, so it does not appear once again.I just experienced it with a girl i was interested in.

So if this is a matter of self-esteem, what would be a good intention for listening?

Something like:

I allow myself to be more than a friend with women?

What you focus on must persist. Trying too hard to change something gets you more of what you want to change.

Use Self-Esteem Supercharger and focus on self confidence, the style that says, yep I can do the just friends stuff and I can do intimacy too. If you're sending the message I don't what to do just friends, how can they receive the vibe I'm open to intimacy?

Read the questions in the booklet, don't worry about the answering them specifically. Use them to help clarify what you want.

Alex